When you want to pick up women at
work you have to be especially carefully. If you do something wrong you might
end being charged for harassment. And even if you do everything right there can
be misunderstandings and a lot of uncomfortable feelings when the relationship
While it might seem simpler to
pick up a woman at work for some reasons (you have valid reasons to talk to
her, you know her, you can find reasonable pretences to talk to her, etc.) it
is in a way more complicated that picking girls in the pub or in the club
because of the same reasons.
Before you go for it you should in
depth weigh all pros and cons of the situation and make your decisions
accordingly. First of all, decide if she is worth it. If you have doubts better
move on and leave her alone. If you believe you want to do this, go ahead but
you might want to follow a few rules about how to pick up women at work.
1. Welcome him every time you see
him. A simple hello or hello is the first step to getting a woman. Short
greetings turn into short conversations. Be charming and inconspicuous.
2. Smile at him. Just smile
quickly, without staring. Keep simple. Your smile must make it feel comfortable
and not be threatened. At the same time, he must never come to the conclusion
that you might have some hidden agenda. Be your usual self, friendly and
3. If you are lucky and this is
the woman you are working with on a project or in the same office and not a
different department, look for opportunities to use. He did a good job,
praising him. Tell and show him how good a colleague … Read more
A healthy baby comes from a healthy mother during pregnancy
and the belief that says that a pregnant woman should eat for two has long been
corrected by nutritionists and health experts. So, what can a pregnant woman do
to keep the baby healthy? For sure, the answer is not by eating double
portions. Eating excessively will only cause obesity or even worse diabetes while
pregnant and if this occurs, a pregnant woman will even have double tasks:
keeping the baby healthy during pregnancy and overcoming the obesity or
diabetes issue. In order to focus on the mother’s and the baby’s health, a
proper diet should be undergone by knowing what to eat and what not to eat
What to Focus on
First of all, the fetus needs vitamins from the mother so a
pregnant woman should eat more varied fruit and vegetables than before she
became pregnant to get all the needed vitamins. The vitamin that is most needed
is vitamin C because it enhances the absorption of iron into the blood. When
the iron is properly absorbed into the mother’s blood, the fetus can get enough
iron which is very important for its immunity and growth. The same process also
prevails for folic acid which prevents the fetus from malformation of palate
The next essential thing that the baby needs is calcium for
its bone to grow well. Make sure that the consumption of milk or other dairy
products is sufficiently adequate otherwise the calcium will be taken from the
mother’s calcium deposits. If this happens, it will cause the mother to have
teeth and bone problems during pregnancy which will continue on in her life.
So, consuming enough calcium sources is definitely one way of keeping the baby
healthy during pregnancy.… Read more
Have you ever heard
that there is a method that you can use to seduce a woman by using your mind?
This method is called Psychic seduction. If you know the techniques of applying
it, it can be done effectively. You can seduce any women you want and make them
fall in love with you.
The use of Psychic
seduction’s ability allows you to implant thoughts and feelings into a woman’s
mind and make her think of something (or someone) you want her to think of. It
is a powerful tactic used in the dating game; However, some people are
refraining from using it due to moral issues.
You may think that
psychic seduction is not an ability to master easily. In fact, everybody
possesses psychic abilities. If you are willing to learn the techniques, and
focus your mind on a particular woman, you will be able to seduce her and get
her to ‘feel’ for you.
This method requires you to seduce
her mentally. This is how it works:
yourself touching and caressing her in your mind
anywhere you want in an erotic manner
It is important that
you express your feelings to her through your touch. You may also whisper in
her ear telling her “I love you”, “You are the most beautiful
woman I have ever seen”, “I love your voice” etc…
One last thing I need
to mention, concentrate on touching and caressing the sensitive parts of her
body, and she will be aroused by you subconsciously.… Read more
Find Your Strongest
Life, by Marcus Buckingham, starts with the premise that women are unhappier
than they were 40 years ago and that we women need to find our “strongest
lives” and do things differently in our lives so that we are not unhappy.
The author, cites
research findings about women’s happiness, but to me, the research trained
developmental psychologist, I found myself asking: what women, what ages? [But
I’m sure the average woman reader of this book is in her 30’s or 40’s and would
not be asking these questions.]
Women in the age range
of 30’s and 40’s, who work, are married and have children are more stressed
these days and therefore may be unhappier than in previous generations.
But I also know that
as we age past our 50’s into our 60’s and 70’s that most people are happier in
general. So yes, one’s age makes a difference in one’s level of happiness.
Why all the stress and
apparent dissatisfaction for the younger women? Because even though husbands
and fathers help out more on the home front, the bulk of child and house care
still falls on women. And therefore working women have additional work when hey
get home – and additional stress.
With the research on
women in mind, the author offers some useful information about how to be
happier and more successful in dealing with one’s life of work and home and he
writes about seeking and finding your “strong moments” and learning
to accept what and who you are.
He also suggests not
trying to be perfect and creating imbalance in your life – two concepts that I
totally agree with. Trying to “have it all” and being the
“perfect parent” or “perfect wife” is a recipe for unhappiness.
And not aiming … Read more
Being a woman
entrepreneur and professional myself has given me a genuine hands on
perspective of what it means to succeed in business and yet stay at the top of
my game with my professional skills.
In my case, I was a
practicing eye surgeon who right out of fellowship training took a corporate
job for a couple of years, just long enough to get my practice up and running.
After over two decades of owning and operating my practice (I had also acquired
my mentor’s large practice when he retired), I sold it to do what I am doing
I help women
entrepreneurs and professionals eliminate the blind spots that limit their
self-image and constrict their vision for business success and it should be
noted that the two are definitely linked.
In fact, how we see
ourselves also constricts our relationships, including our ability to network
effectively, how we dress, the opportunities and risks we are willing to expose
ourselves to and even impacts our overall health in a huge way. I just came
across an article in the small business section of the Wall Street Journal
dated Monday, May 17, 2010 on What’s Holding Back Women Entrepreneurs? and I
would recommend it. Here are two highlights that the author, Sharon G. Hadary,
sited as being the answer to this question and I quote:
1. First, you have
women’s own self-limiting views of themselves, their businesses and the
opportunities available to them.
2. But equally
problematic are the stereotypes, perceptions and expectations of business and
Now here’s what I know
from my own personal experience; number one is more powerful than number two.
When you deal with number one, you are far better equipped to deal with
negativity from others.
From my own life, … Read more