Find Your Strongest
Life, by Marcus Buckingham, starts with the premise that women are unhappier
than they were 40 years ago and that we women need to find our “strongest
lives” and do things differently in our lives so that we are not unhappy.
The author, cites
research findings about women’s happiness, but to me, the research trained
developmental psychologist, I found myself asking: what women, what ages? [But
I’m sure the average woman reader of this book is in her 30’s or 40’s and would
not be asking these questions.]
Women in the age range
of 30’s and 40’s, who work, are married and have children are more stressed
these days and therefore may be unhappier than in previous generations.
But I also know that
as we age past our 50’s into our 60’s and 70’s that most people are happier in
general. So yes, one’s age makes a difference in one’s level of happiness.
Why all the stress and
apparent dissatisfaction for the younger women? Because even though husbands
and fathers help out more on the home front, the bulk of child and house care
still falls on women. And therefore working women have additional work when hey
get home – and additional stress.
With the research on
women in mind, the author offers some useful information about how to be
happier and more successful in dealing with one’s life of work and home and he
writes about seeking and finding your “strong moments” and learning
to accept what and who you are.
He also suggests not
trying to be perfect and creating imbalance in your life – two concepts that I
totally agree with. Trying to “have it all” and being the
“perfect parent” or “perfect wife” is a recipe for unhappiness.
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How do you understand
if you are inside a casual or severe dating? How can you inform in case your
companion considers your partnership just casual or if he is already thinking
of it to become critical? To become effective in a relationship, one particular
must be within the identical wavelength as your companion.
Why does this have to
happen? Very simple. You’d not choose to be stuck in limbo, proper? Exactly
where your boyfriend basically thinks that you simply two are just casually
dating, but you consider that your within a serious relationship? Or
vice-versa? When that happens, things can get fairly ugly, fairly speedy.
Okay, in order that
you can differentiate in between these two extremely distinct varieties of
millionaire dating, let’s take a closer look at them:
1. Casual Dating
As its name would
recommend, casual dating implies that neither of you take the other that
seriously. Why have you not, at this point, taken it seriously? Mainly because
it might be that you’re either dating an individual else or that you just live
too far away from every other. Now, the first 1, where you could be dating
someone else, or that he may be dating a person else also, this is a rather
simple dilemma to resolve. Just verify out his profile. And ensure that you
really read it, and not only skim over it. And for the truth that you happen to
be as well far away from each and every other, unless among you tends to make
an excellent move to determine every other, then you definitely should resign
yourself to the truth that the distance can cease you from obtaining a serious
Casual dating implies
that from both sides, there’s no interest in commitment, meaning that you’re
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