There are some common mistakes that men make with women without even realizing it. By learning what these mistakes are you can avoid making them in the future. You will want to know first off that just because a woman says she is looking for a specific trait, doesn’t mean that’s really what she feels. Women sometimes feel obligated to say they want certain things for the sake of staying within societies guidelines. Here are some of the common mistakes men make with women they meet:
Men have to realize that while a woman claims she wants a nice guy, this may be true; but only to a certain extent. Most women do want a nice man; however they don’t want one that is so nice he comes off too soft. One of the common mistakes men make with women is to act so catering trying to prove that they are a nice guy that it actually turns her off. A man should be respectful, but never give up his masculinity. He should retain his sense of pride while being respectful.
Ironically, another one of the common mistakes men make with women is to take the idea that women like bad boys to heart. A woman may like a masculine man that can make her feel safe and protected, but that doesn’t mean that she likes a jerk. Many men try to act like jerks to try and portray a bad boy image to a woman and then they are surprised when she walks away. You can be a bad boy without being rude and crude to other people. Most women prefer a respectful man that has the potential to be a bad boy when the moment calls for it, not one that doesn’t know how to turn it off. This is one of those common mistakes that come from over analyzing.
Another one of the common mistakes men make with women is to think that she won’t notice that he isn’t paying attention to what she is saying. A woman will usually click to the fact that you aren’t listening to what she is saying after the third time of you asking her the same question that she has repeatedly answered. Not listening and paying attention to a woman is one of those common mistakes that’s a huge turn off and generally if it happens during a first date, the chances are good that there won’t be a second. The truth is, if you are genuinely interested in a woman then you will want to pay attention to what she is saying and women realize this.