Dating confidence. It’s something we all want, but some of us are just better at it than others. If you’re someone who tends to shy away from dating or social situations because you’re afraid of being rejected or because you’re worried about what other people think about you, then humor can be your best friend—and that’s especially true if you have a deadpan sense of humor. We’ll explain why below!
Dating confidence is about being comfortable in your own skin.
Dating confidence is about being comfortable in your own skin. You don’t need to be a model or look like one on the outside, but you must feel good about yourself and dress for the personality that comes out when you’re around other people. If you’re not sure what that means, here are some tips:
- Dress for yourself–not for anyone else. There’s nothing wrong with dressing up from time to time and showing off what makes you unique (and this can include wearing clothes that aren’t generally considered “cool” or “hipster”). But if there’s something more casual that makes more sense for who YOU are as an individual, then go ahead and wear it! Don’t worry so much about what others think; instead, focus on finding outfits that make YOU feel confident in who YOU are.
- Know thyself…and thy partner(s). Before getting serious with someone new, take time get know them well enough so that both parties understand each other’s strengths and weaknesses–both physically AND mentally/emotionally speaking–in order to avoid any surprises later down the road when things start getting serious between two people who maybe weren’t quite ready yet emotionally speaking due too early rush decisions made based solely upon physical attraction alone without taking advantage first chance possible opportunity available now before anyone else takes away everything good