Married Couples – Is It Possible For You To Be Happy?

Married Couples - Is It Possible For You To Be Happy?

What is it like being in a marriage relationship, or equivalent, where you are taken for granted? You do all the activities that are part of any marriage relationship. There is no acknowledgment that you take all these responsibilities, it is simply expected you will do them because you always have. It is not thought there is anything unusual about your situation as is it mirrored in marriage relationships throughout the world.

It is often claimed that circumstances with married couples is different today, it is not like it used to be. However, any surveys that have been taken reflect very little change as they show things are much the same as they have always been.

These surveys demonstrate married women overwhelmingly carry the burden of household and parental duties regardless of the fact that with many married couples both parties are in the paid workforce.

Any involvement in these activities by a lot of men in relationships is regarded as being magnanimous, chivalrous or generous. It is generally viewed as helping, and when involved with children, especially when they are very young, it is often seen as baby sitting, and this is with their own children.

As a couples counselor I have seen many married couples where the men fit into this category of helping, and the women have said other women have expressed how envious they are.

The women have stated they wonder why they don’t feel so good. My suggestion has been to say that perhaps they are made to feel they are indebted to the men in their relationship and this is burdensome. They are now made to feel they owe them for their generosity, and this would probably mean there is now no excuse for men not having sex.

A point to be made is …

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Women Dating After 50 – Who Pays the Bill?

Women Dating After 50 - Who Pays the Bill?

Who should pay the bill on a date?

This can be quite an issue for women who have been brought up with the concept that the guy always pays.

A very liberated woman would say: “An old-fashioned curtsey and out of date (excuse the pun) and I intend to pay my own way”.

But what about from the guy’s point of view. Perhaps in his mind he is having the pleasure of your company and the enjoyment he gets out of the date is sufficient for him to want to settle the bill. Plus the fact that this habit has been ingrained in him from childhood.

There is sometimes the idea in a woman’s mind that if he pays she is obliged to him in some way. Two can play that game. He might have that in mind and she might feel obliged.

Well if this is you, you can offer to pay next time or to be more subtle, make the return less obvious like taking him on a picnic whereby you are supplying the edibles – (food that is).

It does depend on the situation and also on the man. If he is the generous sort and he is doing the inviting then obviously he will want to pay the bill.

Another situation maybe that he is not moneyed and if you have found this out before the date then there is no harm in going dutch. I suggest you treat it in a lighthearted manner.

Its also a way of discovering if he is a mean with his money and doesn’t like spending it on women for a first date even if he is quite well off. It could indicate he is mean in other ways and part of his character that rubs you the wrong way.…

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How To Pick Up Women At Work

When you want to pick up women at work you have to be especially carefully. If you do something wrong you might end being charged for harassment. And even if you do everything right there can be misunderstandings and a lot of uncomfortable feelings when the relationship ends.

While it might seem simpler to pick up a woman at work for some reasons (you have valid reasons to talk to her, you know her, you can find reasonable pretences to talk to her, etc.) it is in a way more complicated that picking girls in the pub or in the club because of the same reasons.

How To Pick Up Women At Work

Before you go for it you should in depth weigh all pros and cons of the situation and make your decisions accordingly. First of all, decide if she is worth it. If you have doubts better move on and leave her alone. If you believe you want to do this, go ahead but you might want to follow a few rules about how to pick up women at work.

1. Welcome him every time you see him. A simple hello or hello is the first step to getting a woman. Short greetings turn into short conversations. Be charming and inconspicuous.

2. Smile at him. Just smile quickly, without staring. Keep simple. Your smile must make it feel comfortable and not be threatened. At the same time, he must never come to the conclusion that you might have some hidden agenda. Be your usual self, friendly and polite.

3. If you are lucky and this is the woman you are working with on a project or in the same office and not a different department, look for opportunities to use. He did a good job, praising him. Tell and show him how good a colleague …

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How to Wear a Swiss Watch for Women?

How to Wear a Swiss Watch for Women?

We all know that most men love luxury Swiss watches but that is also the case for many women. A Swiss watch is an elegant jewel, a timeless accessory and a practical timepiece at the same time. But it is available in several designs, colors and sizes. Although it is possible to wear this kind of watch at any occasion and in any situation, there are some basic rules to follow about how to choose the best model. It is also important to know what types of Swiss watch you can wear on given occasions, how to match them to your outfit and how to wear it properly.

Big Swiss Watches are pretty out of Time

Although Swiss watches are known to be timeless, which is the truth, their manufacturers always try to design more modern styles. For women, it is highly recommended to avoid big watches. You should know that the dials are measured in millimeters. Always opt for a model of 34 to 40 mm and never wider. That is the right size to beautify your wrist and your outfit as a whole. In any case, it must fit your wrist perfectly, whether you choose to put it on the left or the right. Just choose the side with which you are most comfortable and where your watch will not interfere with your movements. In general, this is the non-dominant hand because it can be cumbersome to write with a wristwatch.

The Adjustment of your Swiss Watch

The strap must be firmly fastened around the wrist. The watch should be and look comfortable, natural and certainly not neglected. It may be necessary to adjust it to accommodate the natural movements of your wrist. Some luxury watches have a pin buckle that allows you to tighten them or loosen …

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Reasons to Wear Hair Extensions

Whether it is work, vacation, workout, sports, a beach-side party, or camping, your appearance makes a huge impact on your confidence. While your hairs are the most valuable element of your looks, it is often difficult to take good care of your hair. This happens more when you have an active life and often spend time outdoors. The challenge grows with the season change. You would like to trade your frizzy hairs with a high ponytail in summers. This is where hair extensions are an excellent option for you. You can find a variety of affordable weft hair extensions that suits your personality and make a difference with your raised appeal. Here are some reasons why hair extensions are a great choice for every woman.

Reasons to Wear Hair Extensions

Best friends for long trips

Going outdoor on trips and vacations is usual for vibrant and dynamic personalities. One of the worries while on these trips is about styling your hair. Hair extensions are a great way to get any vacation style you want without stressing about your natural hairs. You can get your new style as easily as you book the venue for the vacation. These extensions are easy to maintain. You can opt for a leave-in conditioner to care for them in saltwater.

Hair growth

If you are someone who is struggling with hair growth, extensions can provide some help. Most people see their hair growth stuck after a certain length. While it is important to have a proper hair care routine, leaving your hair alone is vital in hair growth. When you put on extensions, a little pull is exerted on your follicles and your hairs are almost covered with the extensions. This helps in the natural growth of hairs.

Sweatproof

Sweating is natural and inevitable. If you are …

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